- Make sure your body is clean
The first very important crucial rule is to maintain your own purity. You have to start from the inner cleaning. In the days leading up to anal sex, avoid spicy or any other food that contributes to loose stools. Of course, this is obvious, but often many people forget about it. After cleaning the inside, it’s time to cleanse your body from the outside, just take a shower
- Use a suitable lubricant
First of all, don’t forget to use a condom. This will protect you from sexually transmitted diseases. Anal sex can injure the skin around the anus, as well as in the rectum itself, which increases the likelihood of infection. If you and your partner are not monogamous, do not neglect this advice.
Choosing the right anal lubricant and condom is essential when preparing for anal sex. Note that if you are using a latex condom, you only need to use a water-based lubricant. Since silicone-based lubricants damage the latex condom and increase the likelihood of its rupture.
- Do not be forced to do it
One of the most important obstacles to a first anal experience is compulsive pressure from a partner. You must be fully prepared and really willing to try this type of sexual pleasure. Often, through their curiosity, men push their partner to anal sex without moral readiness, in such case the partner cannot relax and often gets a negative experience of anal sex. If you’re really not ready to give it a try, don’t do it.
- Learn to relax the sphincter muscles
The muscles of the internal sphincter are located at the entrance to the anus. Your task is to learn how to relax them, since the comfort and enjoyment of anal sex depends on the standing of these muscles. If your partner is just trying to get into you, it can be very painful.
In fact, it will take you some time to prepare your sphincter for comfortable penetration. A good way to get the sphincter to relax is to insert a lubricated finger into the anus. Keep it inside for a few minutes and just try to relax your whole body. After a while, you will feel that your sphincter is weakening naturally.
When this happens, slip in a second lubricated finger, you will feel the muscles relax even more. It’s time to use a butt plug or a small anal dildo. The main task is to relax the sphincter enough for a comfortable introduction of the penis.
Moral preparation is essential
For a passive sexual partner, the first anal experience can be quite unpleasant, especially if your partner does not quite understand how your anatomy works. For the most comfortable sensations, it is important to relax not only physically, but also mentally. It is very important to fully trust your partner.
Do not forget about long relaxing foreplay and gentle caresses before anal sex. Many nerve endings are concentrated around the anus, the impact on which will give your partner unprecedented pleasure and help to relax.
The the man should be ideal position for the first anal experience is doggy style. When you are completely relaxed and comfortable with the position of a man’s penis inside you, you can dive deeper. This way, you will have complete control over the depth and speed of penetration.
7. Choose a toy with a wide base
In order to avoid embarrassing situations when a small plug can pass through the sphincter, use only toys with a flat hat or a ring at the base. The problem is that if such a situation occurs, then it will not be so easy for you to get a small plug. the rectum has a vacuum-like pressure that works in the opposite direction.
8. Choose safe, non-porous materials
It is best to use anal toys made from non-porous materials such as silicone, stainless steel or tempered glass, which are safe on the body and can be thoroughly cleaned before and after anal use. Soap and water will do the trick. If the anal toy is vibration-free, then you can easily boil it to completely disinfect it.
9. For easier insertion, insert the toy with the pointed end into the anus at an angle
If you are new to anal play, we advise you to purchase anal plugs with a pointed tapered tip, which makes insertion easier. We also recommend inserting the plug by tilting it at an angle, rather than trying to insert it perpendicularly.
10. To relax, try deep breathing and vibrating toys
An anal vibrator can help to relax the sphincter muscles and create a more comfortable sensation. Deep, even breathing and stimulation of the genitals in other areas will also help the body relax. Take your time with foreplay and remember to pay attention to other areas of the body during anal play. The more aroused you are, the more enjoyable your anal experience will be.
Material is provided by BDSM shop Passion Craft Store